I finally realised how to answer those questions. Instead of me telling people 'What's my type' or 'What do I like in a guy' (its so typical, all girls like tall, good looking, hot body and etc). I'm gonna name a list of 'What I dislike in a guy and would never date this guy'. I think that would give a clearer picture on what type of guys that interest me.
- Acting cool– Dislike guys who act cool. If you don't know what it is or you are not into it, FINE just say so. If you didn't notice, you actually look like a fool trying to portray some one that you are not. By the way, she'll eventually find out you are a fake and break up with you.
- Too clingy– Wanting to see your girlfriend is FINE, but wanting to see and talk to her every hour of everyday.... That's just too much. GET A LIFE, she has a life too you know. Have some 'fun guy times' with your buddies, she would also like some 'girly time' with her friends.
- Over Possessive – Treat her like some one you love and respect, not a person who you assume that she wouldn't know what is right for her. Respect her decisions.
- Guys who are attached– That is a big NO for me. Don't even need to think about it. I don't like to share, especially man. If they can cheat on their current girlfriend, what makes you think he's not going to do it to you?
- Boys– Boys are a big turn off. I prefer man over boys. Seriously, there's a big difference. Figure it yourself.
- Going Dutch – Don't get me wrong. I don't mind paying for things, but I really dislike a boyfriend who would go dutch on everything. Such as; dinner, movie and etc. It's so stressful being with someone who is so calculative. Taking turns to pay for a meal or a movie is FINE. ie; You can buy me dinner and I'll pay for movies/ dessert (vice versa) or etc.
- Players – Do I need to say more?
- Fakers/ Storytellers – I mentioned about people acting cool and I'm going to talk about fakers. Fakers don't always act cool, they will also pretend that they are vulnerable to get your sympathy. Come up with all sort of excuse and stories to get you interested.
- Someone who are full of them self – Nothing is good enough for them, and he's always better, smarter and more expose than you. He knows best. Will only be interested talking about 'Him', don't really care about anyone else and will not even bother to know how your day went.
- Abuser – Doesn't mean all abuser abuse physically, the worst abusers are people who abuse you mentally and emotionally.
- Smokers – I don't mind smokers, but I would choose to date someone who don't smoke or probably social smokers. I dated a chain smoker, it was slightly annoying cause we always have to sit at outside in the smoking area. The one thing I don't get it is 'Why do you need to smoke before and after meal?' The answer I got was 'Better Digestion', BULLOCKS.. Have to wait till he finishes his cigarette. Hated it.
- No confidence – Guys without confidence are a turn off. Can tell by the way they speak. Soft, unclear, uncertain about things, afraid to offend.
